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The business of not proofreading – saying no without guilt: Part 2

28/10/2014

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Exercising the right to accept or decline work is, in my opinion, one of the best things about owning one’s own business. And yet some editorial professionals feel guilty about saying no. What's to be done?
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In Part 1, I looked at the reasons for accepting or declining work, how some editorial freelancers talk about feeling guilty, and how those statements stack up against the reality of what’s going on.

Here in Part II, I consider some simple ways of saying no that make it clear that the project is being declined, why this is so, and what the client can do to find an alternative supplier.

​I also explore the dangers of using an over-pricing strategy to deter an unwanted client, and consider how the guilt-ridden editorial pro might place her feelings within an adapted 10/10/10 framework in order to move forward with a decision that’s in her business's best interests.
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Ways to say no

​​​There’s nothing wrong with clearly and briefly stating your position to a client. Recall Sills, cited in Part I: Saying no isn't about negativity; it's about positivity (Sills, 2013). What's relevant is not the negative impact on the unwanted client, but rather the positive decision we take as business owners.

The danger, especially with the desperate or emotionally charged client, is to get drawn into lengthy discussions, none of which are billable, about why you don’t want the work. Remember, you own your business, so it’s your choice. 

As several experienced colleagues have pointed out since I posted this article, honesty is often the best policy when giving your reasons for saying no, especially in the case of a client with whom you've had previous difficulties, because it enables them to learn from the experience, too. 

However, I do appreciate that for those who are prone to feelings of guilt, being honest about past problems can be so awkward as to cause even more stress.

​If it's the case that you would find being honest stressful, or you're worried about
hurting your client’s feelings, you could choose an alternative stock answer to decline a project in a way that makes it clear that you’ve made your decision and the discussion is closed.

Examples of stock answers for saying no might include:
  • “Thanks so much for getting in touch. I’m really sorry but I can’t take on this work because I’m fully booked. I recommend the following keyword-searchable directory of editorial services <insert your link>. This will enable you to find someone who has the required availability.” (As one colleague pointed out, though, this could still backfire if your customer says that they are prepared to wait. This option is probably unwise for the customer who is already known to you.)
  • “Many thanks for the opportunity to quote. Unfortunately I won’t be able to proofread this project for you. I’ve assessed the sample provided and feel it requires a deeper level of editorial intervention than I’m able to provide; I believe it would be in your best interests to seek the assistance of someone with extensive experience of <insert skill set>. You might find it useful to refer to these guidelines <insert your link> for clarification on the differences between proofreading and other types of editing. I trust this helps and wish you success in your search.”
  • “I’m sorry but existing professional commitments mean that it’s impossible for me to take on this project within your desired time frame. I appreciate that you’re desperate for help but rushed work is poor work, and I never agree to carry out poor work for a client. I recommend the following keyword-searchable directory of editorial services <insert your link>. This will enable you to find someone who has the required availability.”
  • “My apologies. I no longer work on [Master’s dissertations/PhD theses/journal papers/other market sector]. I recommend the following keyword-searchable directory of editorial services <insert your link>.”
  • “Thanks for getting in touch – it’s nice to hear from you again! I understand the difficulties you’ve had with past proofreaders working on your self-published novels, and appreciate your letting me know how much you value my work. However, my business model has changed in recent months and I’ve made the decision to work only for mainstream publishing houses. It’s therefore with regret that I have to decline your request. For the record, I’m delighted to have had the opportunity to work on X and Y with you, and wish you continued success with your publishing journey. I’d recommend the following keyword-searchable directory of editorial services <insert your link>. This will enable you to find an alternative supplier who specializes in working with independent novelists.”
  • “Many thanks for your reply. I’m sorry that my quotation for proofreading services doesn’t fall within your budget. My quotation outlined in detail why I costed the project as I did. In response to your request for a discount, any downward movement in the price would only result in a downward movement in quality, and I’m sure neither of us want to proceed on those grounds. I therefore wish you well in your search for an alternative supplier.”
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Caution with the over-pricing approach

​If you are contacted by a client with whom you don’t want to work because of reasons other than price, deterring them with an approach that you believe will price you out of their market can backfire horribly. This is because you don’t actually know what they are prepared to pay until they have accepted or declined your quotation.

Let’s imagine the following fictional example:
  • I’m contacted by an academic author who wants me to proofread several journal papers. I worked with this academic seven months ago.
  • The experience was awful. The client did not adhere to the timing parameters of our agreement throughout the process; displayed threatening and bullying behaviour by email on four occasions; telephoned me outside business hours eight times – despite clear statements in my signed-off terms and conditions and verbal statements during these telephone calls that this was unacceptable; and paid her final invoice a month late.
  • Under no circumstances do I wish to work with this client again. In her most recent email she’s begged me to take on the proofreading, emphasizing how much value I brought to the table when we last worked together and stating that she doesn’t trust any other proofreader to do the job. High praise indeed, but it’s water off a duck’s back. I don’t want the work.

​I decide to price myself out of her market. I’d previously charged her £20 per hour for proofreading (which I accepted based on the bulk volume of the work).

She’d negotiated me down from £23 per hour so I think I have a good sense of her top line. In order to deter her, I tell her that since we last worked together my rates have increased and I now charge £40 an hour – double the rate she paid seven months ago.

To my horror, she accepts my quotation, telling me that I’m worth every penny. Now I’m stuck. It was never about the money for me; it was about the stress.

The problem is that I didn't close the discussion – and having left the door open, she’s stepped through it.

Now I have another decision to make: either I take on stressful work that I don’t want, or I have to go back and change my story, offering her a different reason: for example, that having checked my schedule, I can’t do the work after all but that I can point her in the direction of a good directory from where she can secure an alternative proofreader.

This response implies that I didn't check my schedule properly in the first place, which is neither professional nor believable. I should have used the scheduling reason in the first place.

​Instead, I’ve wasted my time and my client’s time. I may not want to work with her but that doesn’t mean I shouldn’t respect that her time is precious too. I've also unnecessarily extended the correspondence.
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Placing guilt in a 10/10/10 framework

​​If you’re the kind of person who struggles to say no to clients, try looking at it through a different lens. Business writer Suzy Welch’s 10/10/10 model (cited in Heath and Heath, 2013) asks us to consider how a difficult decision will make us feel in 10 minutes, 10 months and 10 years. In the case of editorial work, I think the time frames could do with being tweaked a little but the principle stands.

Imagine you were to say no to one of the clients discussed in Part I (the strapped-for-cash client, the time-poor, emotional client, the manipulative client, or the inexperienced client).
  • How would it make you feel in 10 minutes?
  • How would it make you feel in 10 hours?
  • How would it make you feel in 10 weeks?

​If you’ve a tendency to feel guilty about declining work, you’ll probably still feel guilty 10 minutes later. In 10 hours you’ll probably feel relief that you stuck to your guns and kept your business schedule open for the kind of work that you need/want to take. And what about in 10 weeks? It’s likely that you’ll have completely forgotten the correspondence altogether.
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Summing up

​​If you're encumbered with feelings of guilt when declining work, here’s a summary of tips to help you say no with confidence:
  1. First of all, remind yourself that you own your own business so you get to decide. Your needs and wants come first. If the job doesn’t work for you, for whatever reason, it’s your right to say no. Indeed, you are obliged to respect your own professional needs because otherwise you are no longer operating as if you own your business, but instead as if the customer owns it.
  2. When responding, thank the client and state clearly that you can’t take the job.
  3. Explain why you can’t take the job. If you’re sure you don’t want the work, take care to close the door.
  4. Direct the client to a resource where alternative suppliers can be found.
  5. If the client tries to force the door open again by emotionally manipulating you, and you have already made your position clear, either ignore the correspondence or, if you must, reply, clearly repeating points 2, 3 and 4. Standing firm at this point is essential.
  6. If guilt is still holding you back from making a decision that you think is in your business's best interests, use an adapted version of Welch’s framework and ask yourself, “How will saying no make me feel in 10 minutes, 10 hours and 10 weeks?” If declining the project feels difficult now but you think that in 10 hours and 10 weeks it won’t be an issue, acknowledge your guilt, then gently move the emotion to one side and say no anyway.

Let’s end with another quotation from Sills (2013): “Wielded wisely, No is an instrument of integrity and a shield against exploitation. It often takes courage to say. It is hard to receive. But setting limits sets us free.”

We are the owners of editorial businesses. We set our own limits. We accept or decline work on terms that suit us, and are free to do so without drama, fear or guilt. This is nothing but normal business practice.

Further reading
Broomfield, Liz (2013). When should I say no? (Libro Editing)
Heath, Chip, and Heath, Dan (2013). The 10/10/10 Rule for Tough Decisions (FastCompany.com)
Sills, Judith (2013). The Power of No (Psychology Today)
Louise Harnby is a line editor, copyeditor and proofreader who specializes in working with crime, mystery, suspense and thriller writers.

She is an Advanced Professional Member of the Chartered Institute of Editing and Proofreading (CIEP), a member of ACES, a Partner Member of The Alliance of Independent Authors (ALLi), and co-hosts The Editing Podcast.

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2 Comments
John Espirian link
28/10/2014 10:54:14 pm

Excellent stuff again, Louise. The adapted 10/10/10 approach certainly helps to put things into perspective.

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Richard Adin link
3/11/2014 03:09:20 am

Absolutely excellent pair of article, Louise. But I do have a quibble or two -- would you have guessed? :)

First, about giving a reason for turning down work. If you feel compelled to say more than "Sorry. I'm not interested." then you are suffering from those very same guilty emotions you warn against. As you rightly point out, we own our own business and can make our own decisions about for whom we wish to do work.

I have no problem in giving an excuse to the prospective client whose work doesn't interest you, but I do have a problem giving an excuse to the troublesome client you parodied in the overprice example. To that devil client, my response would be "The only way I'd work with you again is if you paid me $1,000 per page in advance with a no refund contract." If the devil client is willing to meet those terms, I'll suck it up, but not even a profligate billionaire would pay that kind of price.

Which brings me to my second quibble: Overpricing does work, you just need to really overprice, as in the $1,000 per page. Doubling a fee never seems to work with devil clients. But even in your example you got stuck. So woman-up and say: "Look, I'm not interested at any price. I so thoroughly detested our last encounter that I am certain it would cloud my ability to provide you with the quality you are expecting. With my professional reputation at stake, I simply will not work with you again." Blunt, tough, to the point.

Which means that I see 2 alternatives: (1) really exaggerate the price -- 100 times what you last charged the client -- or (2) be blunt, tough, to the point. (Remember the school of thought that says tough love is the best love?)

In truth, you hit the nail on the head when you began in Part I and reiterated here that it is our business and we can choose our clients. We need to remember that we can FIRE our clients and when appropriate, that is what we must do. (The first time I wrote a client as follows: "John, I am pleased to say you are FIRED!!! I am returning the unedited portion of your manuscript and the outstanding invoice that you owe me is hereby forgiven. Don't call, don't write, just find someone more in tune with you. Good luck." I realized that I had made my business my own and, more importantly, felt good that I had taken the reins of my business and made it truly my business.)

The third quibble lies in Part I where you mention feeling guilty about turning down work. When I first began, I made it a rule to never turn down work. I quickly learned that was a mistake. I further learned that when clients discovered that I was choosy, my reputation went up a few notches. Selectiveness is a positive and it should be marketed that way.

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